Undefeated, I wish I knew what to advise about telling your H because the first time I confronted mine, I didn't know what else to do but give an ultimatum...and did it again the 2nd confontation but he chose her obviously!?

So I think requesting MC is a good start...and maybe have a consequence of ___ in mind if he refuses?? Come on experienced ones out there--and where are the former WAHs when we need one? I always hear about the WAWs darn it!!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004