Undefeated, I wish I knew what to advise about telling your H because the first time I confronted mine, I didn't know what else to do but give an ultimatum...and did it again the 2nd confontation but he chose her obviously!?
So I think requesting MC is a good start...and maybe have a consequence of ___ in mind if he refuses?? Come on experienced ones out there--and where are the former WAHs when we need one? I always hear about the WAWs darn it!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004