So I apologized, or tried to poorly. It began an argument - she began telling me how her parenting decision is right because she's a mother. I began to say that she's from her country when she cut me off. I was trying to say that her POV might be correct, but it is different than mine.
It led to more arguing, because she doesn't want to let it go ("when you don't have a [male part] you can tell me how to parent" was her reply).
I tried to explain that if she had said that she loved the idea of walking with me, but she needed time with just one kid, I would've been fine. Instead I was hurt, so I used harsh words.
