You are right. 2x4 taken as deserved. If something happens I will post here again. Just my own insecurities shining through. Its just that an OM was a deal breaker before D so after D it still holds the same boundry for a possible R.
I pray that this will not happen but its out of my hands.
TY for the reality check. It still hasnt sunk in that I am no longer married to her.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
