WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Uh oh.... WAH is not very happy with me today cuz I hung up on him.. Not DB I know, but I'd had enough drama today and wasn't going to be yelled at any more.

He's not impressed that I never answered his email where he asked what is wrong with the custody doc version he sent... I told him it wasn't a priority for me any longer as I resolved the subsidy issue... He accused me of using the kids as a pawn (what??? not sure where he got that from)... Said that he was filing his taxes alone and if I tried to do them for him to get his refund he'd charge me with fraud.. (what? What?)

He also said that I was refusing to sign his version of custody docs because I thought that OW helped him with it... sorry.. not DB but I told him to grow up! (bring on the 2x4s)

He then started yelling louder so I just hung up on him...

Apparently he booted out of SIL house to come pick up the kids (his weekend) right afterwards, so I made a quick getaway to avoid a face to face encore.. (My mom waited for him with the kids)

I figured out today where the sudden urgency for the docs is coming from... He saw OW last weekend.. He had told me previously that their A began as a game online but then she just started asking him to "prove" everything he was claiming (not married, divorced, etc) Methinks she's getting antsy as she is in another country and him and I are within an hour of each other. She doesn't believe a word he says (SIL overheard one of their arguments when he was on the phone and from what he told her afterwards) so she's probably asking him to see the signed custody docs to prove we aren't working on the marriage...And he's supposed to spend a week with her the beginning of March..

Suddenly I KNOW I don't need to be doing anything with those documents... he wants to file for custody.. let him... I'll get my supporting stuff ready just in case...

Sorry.. I know the above is not very loving or charitable.. but I'm just so fed up with the juvenile antics already.. I am obviously not detached enough but I really need to get there as I don't want to keep getting swayed to and fro...