Female opinions on asking for rings back?

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I thought about getting it back to give to my daughter when she meets the right person. I dont feel that my w is "qualified" to do it herself because she chose to walk away for another man. It is not a family heirloom but at what point does it become one? Maybe I will start that tradition? I am leaning towards not asking for it back but who cares if she sees me as greedy, hurt, or just a jerk?