OK so I sent H an email earlier this week I think Pearl would approve of smile re: the tax stuff & that we need to close the cr card asap, I want to see the return before he files it, & depositing half my check in the joint checking after this pay.

Today I got an email:
"Okay. I can also stop by the house and get your W-2 or 1099. I'll send the 2008 return and let you see the 2009 one before I file it.

Thanks for letting me know. Can we get together and talk soon? I would like to do as much of this as we can without the lawyers involved. I want to make it as easy as possible for you so maybe we can get together and see where we are.
Thanks."

So, he wants to talk about the S agrmt. Here's what I wrote:

"I think it's best to have the separation agreement handled by the attorneys. I have a meeting this week to go over everything. Thanks."

I thought about using Pearl's line about talking about R while he's in an A, but seems like he wants to talk about the S. Anyone think I should still add it?

I feel dumb asking everyone if my emails to H are OK. But I think earlier in our S I didn't handle things well. C is where I always seem to choke. And our C is so minimal, I'd like it to have an impact. Guess I still care. I care, but I dont' feel any hope. Thanks friends.