Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Ok Susan, thank you for clarifying! I apologize for responding so defensively about fathers. Rest assured, if WH started flaking out, I would be fighting for full custody (if we D). But luckily I just don't see him doing that.

And you are right about income- he makes 2.5 times what I do but we already looked up child support calculator info(last March) and he would be paying me quite a bit, even with 50% custody. We hashed out other expenses as well that he voluntarily offered to pay. Wrote it all up...just hope to God we won't need to go there.