I'm sorry to disrupt the flow here, but I keep up with your thread because you and everyone here are so insightful and generous in your sharing. I was moved by your post last week about the book "Passionate Marriage" to pick up my copy and continue reading. It's dense with information and on my first attempt I only made it about 25% through.
I wanted to let you and others here know that David Schnarch and his team have developed a cool interactive website for "people who want an emotionally healthy life". It has an interactive forum, much like this DB forum, and a place to post personals if you want to meet people for friendship or romance. It just opened a week ago. One of the coolest aspects of this website is that David Schnarch himself has posted on the forum. I don't know, but it's possible he may interact with posters since this is such a new venture for his group. The web address is: crucible4points.com.