you WANT him to ask you!!! see, you are not in this as far as I was, my husband wanted NOTHING to do with me for quite some time. I was begging to even get just a look from him.
I agree! You should be logging that as a sign that what you are doing is working. I went out in the evening last night for the first time in 4 years looking good, in a good mood, and wearing new flashy earrings and leaving him to put the kids to bed for the first time ever. H didn't express the faintest interest in where I was going before or afterwards. Even if your H is 95% thinking about OW, and 5% wondering what you are up to, that is a babystep compared to 100/0. You are getting some territory in his brain.
It sounds like you're feeling pretty down. I can relate to that. hugs.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
