She has already agreed to my requests. The funny thing is (in a really unfunny kind of way) is yesterday I asked her if she had completeted the D paperwork. She said yes and that she had dropped it off at my L's, as I had requested. I asked her if the parenting plan stuff was in there that we had agreed upon and she said yes. I called the L and none of it was...hmmmm.
So, I called the W and she said she thought we had agreed that having this kind of stuff in the legal document was silly and that we would just honor it outside of the legal environment...man she can shovel it. I told her no, I wanted in the document. She got pisssy and said fine, have your lawyer put it in.
If I had to speculate, she does not want it in the document because the OM will continue to wonder why I have such little disregard for him and do not want him anywhere near me, and she will have to try to explain it to him. She will lie but it is probably something she does not want to deal with. I am not going to be Mr. Nice Guy anymore when it comes to the OM and this is going to create a larger rift between us. I do not want to hate this woman (and I do not want her to hate me) so hopefully this is someting we can get past. The next couple of months are going to be interesting. No more more lip service for the OM coming up!
