Mach1 has hit it right on the head. She is already gone, your marriage is already over. In here we can help you be ready for your next relationship....now that can be a better version of your old marriage or a new one, but either way you will be stronger and your relationship will be better. (Disclaimer-There will be frequent emotional roller coasters during application of this drug....in the case of dire actions...stop...think for 24-48 hours and then consult DB board)
I think Mach and OP will attest (as Jack and I already have) you will be a better person when all of this is done. Almost a rebirth of self!
