Thanks all.

I mistook the "man up" advice big time.

I am going to take some time away this weekend to put a smile on and keep my mouth shut.

Any advice on managing emotions or narcissism is appreciated. I did notice a lot of books geared to those in a relationship with a narcissist, but not much material for the narcissist to assist in reprogramming themselves.

I guess that is an oxymoron though as a narcissist wouldn't need to look elsewhere for help with their development.

Once again, I appreciate the support structure - have a good weekend all.