Susan, I am not concerned in the least about getting enough money! I am smart, contrary to what it might look like, LOL!
According to the laws in my state, 50% custody is legal starting at 1 year of age. Turns out that dads are actually important and valuable--so the courts do not automatically award kids to mom 80% TIME, KWIM?
Every other day is one option or split week in half or do every other week.
And am doing the best for my S--I want to keep him daily but that is not fair to him. Every child needs 2 parents (whether adpoted or step or birth)
But it ain't over til it's over! Thanks for your concern, though!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004