FWIW, I do agree with Deep's assessment. The best thing is to just put the OP out of our lives because whatever happens to them, whatever they do no longer has anything to do with our lives.

But I like to hold onto karma as a backup for those moments when I slip up.

Keep your chin up RW, you're doing great! It's still going to be a bumpy road for a while.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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