Lostnotgone,
I agree we do need to stick together. Create our own support group: "Hi my name is _____ and I'm a fix-it addict" (-:

I used to be into the soap opera's too, and always hated the valentines stuff.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10