Am I making a reasonable request by asking the W to not let the OM attend any kids functions when I am present for a year. I understand is is somehwat of a selfish and ridiculous request, but then again I am in a ridiculous sitch and deasling with a selfish person. I am sure this request is going to lead to more resentment from her, but that is really not my concern right now.
I am still trying to keep things civil but I have a ton of anger towards her right now and it is scaring me.