I got the same line- and I guess it's nice of them to be honest- prob is they have told us exactly what they're willing and not willing to do.
Quit asking, as it comes across as needy, insecure, and weak.
I'm prob a few months ahead of you- and all of my neediness and insecurity helped her get out of the house.
While she's there, it is what it is, just do your own thing, see what 180s work, if she doesn't do what you want her to do, dont react, just keep PMAing
She's already living elsewhere Maynard...she now lives with her dad. It was my neediness and begging that helped her decide to walk out.