"I am the one that has the power to end my pain, no one else." It is amazingly empowering. "I deserve better from myself." Especially, the word 'from' as opposed to 'for' which is more ego based.
Sorry I have been picking apart a post on this forum for a few months now.
Flowmom, Dudess is this what your stating?
Empowering vs dependency
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!