W reply- "its not more important, he's not a friend to me- he's immature and I told him he's a a$$hole."
That's how she feels at that moment because he didn't do something she wanted... she'll change her tune again in an hour. Don't waste too much time on thinking about it.
When the ratio of displeasing:pleasing with OM grows to about 75:25 or maybe higher, that's when you can expect her to divert her attention elsewhere... maybe back towards you.
In the meantime you move on with your own direction.
