Thanks Lost - As I thought about your post yesterday I realized that the underlying issue I was having was jealousy. I am jealous that she appears happy and to have this care free attitude yet I am busting my hump to do everything. I still struggle with if I should stand up for myself but I just feel like doing so would come across as "control". If she is a MLCER's then this approach would not work. I am going to pick up the DR book today and start studing my butt off. I'm almost sure that she is a MLCER so that I think the only option available to me is to detach and GAL. Thanks again.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
