Thanks Jack. FWIW you, OP and the rest of the folks that have responded have been a blessing to me. Now that I have calmed down I can see the changes that have been taking place in me. I am much more controlled (although I do still get upset) and think before I open my mouth, which I did not do last night for the record. In no small part because of everyone's response. As I sit here I realize that I do not want my marraige to end I just need to realize that this is somewhat out of my control. The only thing that I can control is being a good Dad, become a better person and chaning the controling habits of my past. I know that I will have good days and bad days but I also know that I can count on you guys to keep me in line and keep my expectation real, which right now they are not. My marraige did not break in 6 months and it will not get fixed in 6 months. Keep the advice coming.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
