i just called to talk to my older daughter, and my wife answered. She told me that she had told my daughter when i was coming home, and that I'd be staying somewhere else. I told her I was going to talk to her about it later, but I'm coming home. She didn't understand, and I told her I was going home to my house. She really didn't have a response, i shocked her. Her whole tone changed, and we had a short conversation about normal things. i actually put my foot down for the first time since she told me this, and it felt pretty good.
Good work.
You see how she is choreographing things for you. Do not allow this. She should not be telling the children anything about this without YOUR agreement. These are not just HER children - they are YOUR children,too. She overstepped a boundary IMO by telling the child anything about this. Call her on it.
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