On the otherhand I could say nothing and see if he brings it up to her.
I like this option. You need to detach and stay away from the spew and venom.
Try not to engage her unless it is neccessary to protect your kids. Even then try to keep it to a minumum
For the record I have been NC with my W for close to 6 months so the fact that we are talking and going on a date is truly amazing. And we have been sleeping in the same bed NC! Also this just could be a touch and go with my W. Why I have to keep expectations low!
