I still like the music too, and I almost always wear black. Hey, it's a good color on me, and hides all my spills. (I'm a bit messy)

I am just not listening to any music NOW as I can't stand to hear--almost anything that might make me think of X.

Yes, high school--smoking cigs, hanging out, trying to be cool--those were the days!


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process