I understand too. It is exhausting! We put so much energy into how much or little to do and how much or little we'll get and what to do if anything - what an emotional holiday! Try not to let it spin your brain into panic mode - it's just another day in the end and the love you are rebuilding with your H is what counts every day!
I was thinking today how Valentine's Day is more for women than men - yet we end up giving more than we get so often...I still think it's wonderful that you made some lovely chocolates - consider them a valentine's gift for both of you. Try not to keep tabs on who is giving more or less, this will spoil your own sanity. Just keep the day reserved for love - the best gifts are free. Grab your man and cuddle him and don't let go. Him presence is the best gift of all.
I'm not having a valentine's day this year, so remember how lucky you are to have him there. Focus on the positive and you'll get the same in return!
