Lost, I would assist your children in getting cards and/or a little something for your h. Nothing over the top.
As for you, I would purchase a card that had no mushy stuff on it and keep it in a drawer just in case he gets you one. You can't have any sentimental ties to the card or he will feel pressure.
It you want to hang out at home on Sunday, by all means do it. Why should you have to leave home just because it is Cupid's big day. If you can keep things light and simple, stay home.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
