HDWife trying for happier life

[HDwife]

All I would say is get a life, stop focusing on this issue, don't ever initiate AT ALL, act like you don't give a damn, be cheerful and next time he inititiates flirt a little but turn him down (with a raincheck) do this as playfully as you can. Make him chase you - he will feel better about himself.

Is that all? Sign me up! [/sarcasm].
Seriously, thanks for caring and cutting to the chase.

I hereby proclaim that as of today, 2/12/10, I vow to not initiate sex with my husband for one full year. I will try to get a life beyond sex, too. As my happiness is up to me, I will stop diminishing life's joys by constantly weighing personal pleasure with pussy pleasure.

ps: I take this advise to heart as a reincarnation on this board (ie, not a total newbie).