OH - and I know how you feel about kids!! I REALLY wanted to be having them right now and instead - my H turned into a terrible 2 year old... WTF?
All I can say is: better to find that out before you have kids!! I have friends who divorced before having children then remarried and had kids. Believe me, they do not take their marriages for granted! They don't let issues slide, they are totally motivated to work on things. Until you experience it, it's hard to imagine how much stress children can put on marriages. If a M isn't on a solid foundation before children, it is likely that children will make things much, much worse.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
