She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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When you tell her this you are actually seeking her approval, another thing that a strong confident man doesn't need to do. You make a decision for what's best for you and your kids and that means going home and being home and living at home, that's what is best for you and your kids. Allow your wife to do what she wants to do, she isn't asking for your approval to do what she's doing, you don't need to ask her or tell her what you will be doing, YOU JUST NEED TO DO IT.

Make a decision, and follow through, very attractive, very assertive, very masculine and very much the opposite from you based on the vibe I'm getting.

When you get home you just live at home, you don't ask for permission. If she asks what your plans are, then you can tell her this:

"I've decided I'm not moving out, this is my home. If you have a problem with this and feel you need to leave, I won't stand in your way and I won't beg you to stay. Being home and living in my home is what's best for me & my kids regardless of what happens between you and me."

And when you do this and say this, TBart, she is going to spin so far up you won't know what hits you! She will be mad. She will call you 'controlling'. She will fly all over every flaw you have and blame you for all of her misery.

None of this show of emotion on her part requires a matching show from you. Your calm, confident and strong disposition will HIGHLIGHT her loose ends. You put yourself on the rational end of the spectrum BY YOUR ACTIONS and she puts herself on the other end by her REACTIONS to your strength. This is how you want it. You have to chip away at what she thinks is her conviction and commitment to D. One thing I know for sure is that the WAW is almost never as SURE of what she is doing as she appears. You can expose this.

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