She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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Your position needs to be "W, if you want to leave this M, go. Put your Big Girl Panties and live your choices." Then you will begin to see the depth (or lack of) her commitment to the D and the M.

And she may actually walk out of the door. That's not even close to the end, TBart. I left and filed. We never D ~~~ we reconciled. So it can happen!

You do need to get the A questions answered. And I don't mean from her b/c from what I've read on here, most folks deny when asked. I mean you must gather intel - cell phone records, look at her computer, that kind of thing. It is possible for a W to leave without OM to go to. And since she has her own income, that may be. But you still need to know b/c if there is OM, you MUST bust that thing FIRST. Nothing else will work until that soft landing of hers is removed/exposed.

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