She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[gutwrenching]

[quote] Remember, I've been gone and they're used to their mom/quote]

You are looking at this wrong. This is your chance to establish stronger bonds with your kids than you have ever had before. That is one good thing that has come from my sitch which has many, many similarities to yours. You don't move out, you learn how to be the single parent, it will be so rewarding and it will keep you motivated!