Lostnotgone,
Your fine, hijack anytime. I am a fix-it addict too, that is what makes not pursuing so hard I think.

Rhody5,
Limbo land is the hardest thing of all this IMO. I just hate feeling stuck and want to move forward. However, I do think it gets easier.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10