Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[pigskin]

Thanks. It just burns me to think this @$$ is walking away scott-free

. . . so far . . .

Remember what the Bible says about vengence belonging to God. I don't believe anyone gets away with anything. You may never know about it, but he will reap what he has sown.

Another reason to not interfer with things right now is the fact God could be removing this man from your W's life and thereby helping her to be able to heal and get OM out of her system. You don't want to mess that up due to how this is causing you to feel. You've endured for a long time, just hang strong for a bit longer.

I always think about the "vengeance is mine" passage from the bible when the OM comes to mind and I feel pride and ego trying to get the best of me. Everyone has to answer for their actions but it is not our place to dole out punishment. I do still think that the OM's wife should be told though. Not for vengeance, but out of concern.

Stuck Sandi may be right about God getting the OM out of your W's life. Since we all have free will, He can't change her mind for her but he can give her signs and help in other ways. It's up to her to recognize them. I feel the same thing about my W losing her job where the OM worked.