I would suggest you simply TALK to the attny and find out the details. Unfortunately you have to look out for ONLY YOU in this sitch. If there is a legal strategy to help you, you need to know about it and employ it if necessary. Worrying about whether or not this will change H's mind is NOT something that should factor in.

REMEMBER - Believe NOTHING they say and HALF of what they do.

I know it was nice that H stopped by - and it gave you a GREAT opportunity to show the fabulous DBing you.. but I wouldn't say its hope. It could just be loneliness or guilt.... you have NO WAY of knowing.

I think you KNOW all of this... but just in case smile

Seperation agreements are NOT a D and can be reversed. Filing for D is NOT completing it and can be reversed. There isn't any ONE THING you will do to sway him one way or the other. But doing what is best for you will breed respect and THATS something you can rebuild on....

(((TTA)))

T

ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09
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