That's good that you know what works best with H. Be open and direct with him then. I'm proud of you that despite everything you were feeling, you were still able to reach out to him last night. I hope he now realizes that v-day is important to you and makes an effort to do something with you. Just try to make the most out of your time together this weekend and prepare yourself to hit the heavy stuff next week. For next week, kind of being more business like and setting out the plan for his potential move back should keep things from getting too tense while hopefully still gaining some important insight on where he's at. It's hard to know how it's going to go, so just be prepared with the things you know you would like to address and how, and then be flexible from there. But I think you are right that the time is now to let go of OW and not wait until the last possible second before he has to move back. He needs to get rid himself of her and start focusing on you two and spending time with you. Maybe make the proposal that he has dinner everynight with you (or whatever you feel comfortable with) as a start to reconnecting on a daily basis, which is necessary if he is to move back. Maybe suggest MC too? So just think about some possible short term solutions like these that could show he is serious about a future R with you and not just another "roomate" situation. It's good for your sanity's sake that time limit is coming up, but that also means that you have to get to action now. Have a good Friday!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
