GAL the floors ... Or 180 them. From dirt to clean.... Its only a GAL if you never cleaned before.... And if you never did.... Correct that mistake for the rest of your life.

I do not know why you would send that text. Some thoughts are just that. Thoughts. Keep them to yourself.

Stay DIM. Let her contact you for the next 2 weeks. Only contact her if it is extremely important. Random thoughts are not important. Do you understand this? Actually I know you do know this. So a 180 for you is to do this. Do you have a list of what is extremely important to break the DIM ?

If not. Then a 180 for you would be to list this out on paper.
And list out your replies to items from your wife on non-important items.

There you go. A couple of tasks.

I am going to review my lists as I have entered the land of the DIM as well with my STXW.

We can compare lists if you would like. See ya on the alt


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