I'm afraid that if I go to the house and she leaves then it will ruin any chance of reconciliation. I'm afraid if I play the mean card then she'll not want to do marriage counseling. I still have hopes of being able to repair this marriage, and that's what makes it so hard to make the living arrangement decision.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept