Her L is doing his job and protecting his client -- just like yours is for you. This is just L business.
This isn't her pushing your buttons... Think of this as a heads-up that you aren't as detached as you thought you were. So now you know what you need to work on.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT