Female opinions on asking for rings back?

[hoosiermama]

I concur with the majority opinion here. Actually, I bought my own rings (lordy, I had so many warning signs that I ignored!!!) but I'm saving them for D14 to do what she wants.

Unless they were family heirlooms, they were a gift. I see where you're coming from, but it's likely that she won't.

you could also ask your ex-step-FIL for his opinion--I'm sure he'll give you one!