Sadly, no kids. I think trying and it not happening right away is what ignited some of this. But I think that is part of my impatient state too. If I do want to have kids, I can't just wait and hope he comes around..

Also tried explaining he owes at least his share of the mortgage and his answer is "but I don't live there" and "you can cover it". Frustrated at feeling like I am being taken advantage of. I am maintaing the house so we don't lose it and destroy our credit.. he is taking vacations and has an apartment. Grrr..