hey, no problem having that fear, I would think that would be expected a little bit anyways. but, if he throws a fit, you let him know that when the courts deem he is allowed unsupervised visits, you will give him an opportunity to watch her as well, but only then.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
[/quote]but, if he throws a fit, you let him know that when the courts deem he is allowed unsupervised visits, you will give him an opportunity to watch her as well, but only then.[quote]
Thats true but I really don't think you need to worry about XH wanting to watch her for you when he can't even make the supervised visits.
Sounds like GAL so go for it. You will feel better for sure.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I am very excited about the upcoming 3 hours. Once a week would be good for baby too. The times are during work hours anyway, but I am sure exh would throw some sort of controlling fit and MGF is just waiting to find something to look like a hero to exh.
I never heard a peep from him yesterday. Out of sight, out of mind. How wonderful.
Looking forward to a nice and sunny weekend. Be outside and find stuff to do.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Great article. I deleted any mutual friends of exh's a week ago. Much nicer that way and I don't even think any of them have noticed yet anyway. I feel so much better this week. Sticking to my guns is so much better for the PMA!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
So today baby and I were at the park when exh textd to come for his visit. I said we were at the park and he can either come there or we would head home. Ended up at the park. It was nice. Less stressful and baby had fun.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Waiting to see if exh shows up this morning and then baby and I are heading to the zoo for a few hours. Supposed to be 75 here today. Love it.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
wow 75!! so not fair! lol actually, it wasn't too bad here in OK, it was light jacket weather so much better than the ice/snow weather we've had so much of.
so when you were at the park, was that his time to see baby? I ask because you offered to go home, so I'm hoping it was his time.
hope you have a great time at the zoo!!!
your doing great!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
