[/quote]but, if he throws a fit, you let him know that when the courts deem he is allowed unsupervised visits, you will give him an opportunity to watch her as well, but only then.[quote]
Thats true but I really don't think you need to worry about XH wanting to watch her for you when he can't even make the supervised visits.
Sounds like GAL so go for it. You will feel better for sure.
JAK
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