robx I t's so much easier said than done. I still hopes of fixing this thing because the issues are repairable. I have been owning up and agreeing with all she says. She has agreed I can stay in the house, but she'll stay somewhere else. She never said I couldn't stay there, just not with her. I agreed to stay somewhere else because I've been gone for the past 6 months, and i feel if we tag out it will be best for the children. the friend I'll be staying with lives right around the corner, so I'll be near my kids. Remember, she has at least agreed to marriage counseling, so there's still some hope. I know I haven't been perfect, no one is, but I also know I've been a pretty good husband.
smarten up, being kicked out of your home is the first thing that shows her you're not a strong man.
Stay in your home, it's ok. You're allowed.
Nearly every guy on this site moves out hoping that it's the "right thing" to do, you are using your feelings to dictate your moves, instead of following reality.
Counter-intuitive, I would rather you not repeat the same mistake most everyone else makes but if you feel better go ahead, learn from others and save yourself time and effort or learn from your own experience and waste time & effort and everything else that goes with that process.
