I couldn't agree w/ you more- it is sometimes painful and a thing of envy to see others cross into our domain- but pull out together.
Obv. I am very happy for all of them- but also a bit jealous. There's two ways of looking at it. 1- there is something we are supposed to learn, and have the terrible priveledge of learning this lesson under our circumstances.
2- the other way is not learning our lesson and faulting our WAS for the lack of committment- and for making us miserable
Most of us will have moments of both feelings- but the goal is to save ourselves and be better for our experience.
I'm in your boat and I'm here for you- we'll be OK
