robx I t's so much easier said than done. I still hopes of fixing this thing because the issues are repairable. I have been owning up and agreeing with all she says. She has agreed I can stay in the house, but she'll stay somewhere else. She never said I couldn't stay there, just not with her. I agreed to stay somewhere else because I've been gone for the past 6 months, and i feel if we tag out it will be best for the children. the friend I'll be staying with lives right around the corner, so I'll be near my kids. Remember, she has at least agreed to marriage counseling, so there's still some hope. I know I haven't been perfect, no one is, but I also know I've been a pretty good husband.
you want something she doesn't want, she doesn't want to be with you anymore but you continue to communicate that you want different, you want her, you want your marriage, so all she is hearing is "me, me, me, selfish me"
Of course it's easier said than done, everything in life is easier said than done.
Stop following your feelings and what you feel is right and start following reality and doing what's right.
It's counter intuitive but until you get it through your thick skull, you'll keep dancin' the "limbo" dance.
Sorry bro, have to be honest with you plain & simple.
You're pursuing your wife while she is trying to get away from you and the marriage and that's the quickest way to chase her away.
