Being his friend and having sex with him isn't going to work. He'll never have to choose, and you will be forever spinning on the stick, being Choice #2.
If you DO have sex with him, for god's sake I HOPE YOU'LL USE PROTECTION.
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If I put my foot down, H will most likely choose us. This is going to sound extremely stupid but I hesitate to do it because I don't want to hurt him. What is wrong with me. I tell him if he goes to her house on Thanksgiving I will be hurt yet he does it anyway. He keeps hurting me so why do I care. Seriously, what is wrong with me that I still want to protect him? I know protection is my nature but really, I find myself in a situation where I am protecting him to my own detriment - does that sound like what I am doing?
