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(((Mind)))
What we do is so, so, so much more than just being "the mom". I know you know that. We are creating a foundation for life... which is why fighting for our M's is so important.

I'm a sports mom too... I get ya! smile

Hope you are feeling better, and thanks for all your encouragement!

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YEAH for moms!!! do you know we have the best and hardest jobs in the world???? just think about it. we are bringing up a LIFE, and human being who is going to be unleashed onto society, and it's our job to create a GOOD ONE!

and mind, I know you love your H, but there is more to you than your kids and your job and H.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

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I think I might be starting to do something RIGHT!


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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I'm just the mom. I drive. I make snacks. I make sure they're uniforms are clean.
TRUE SOCCER MOM.

Clean clothes,feed, and DRIVE!!
But I agree with other posters. You are laying a good foundation for the future.

I am at the stage that I can see the results. It is a great thing.

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OP - Some day we need to chat in the alt... you made me realize a few things... Thank you!!

However, TODAY...

Finish laundry. (Good Lord, is it EVER done?)

Do some work.

Stop and see, and hopefully have a very grown-up conversation w/D18 and roommates.

Pay the kids registration fees for school next year (UGH!)
Lunch (and bowling w/the kids) with BFF and another friend and kids... Other Friend and H just opened the equivalent of a Brunswick Zone place, w/an Off Track Betting inside. Wow. Serious cash! Heard it is awesome btw...

Handle driving S9 - Going to see AVATAR at an IMAX w/his friend

Go to the Varsity BBALL game tonight, and hang w/girlfriends (mom's of players).

Whew! That's a lot for the person who was starting to like hibernating...


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
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Originally Posted By: mindfull
I think I might be starting to do something RIGHT!


hey there mf. you have some kinda 'watershed' moment or something like that?! lol

you musta copied off of me smile ! Or maybe I should be copying off of U.

In any case maybe with this breakthrough of sorts it is time to start a new thread ..ya think??


Have a great morning! ((( mindfull )))


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I think I might be starting to do something RIGHT!


I like the sound of that! smile


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
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EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
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Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
and mind, I know you love your H, but there is more to you than your kids and your job and H.


This I agree with 110%. I think women particularly get way too caught up in their families and forget who they are as individuals.

You were your own person before you met H, before you had kids. What did that MF like to do?


If you love somebody, set them free.
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Hey, you can be a mom and a milf (SORRY TO BE CRASS!!!;-) )

And how do you have a "grown up" conversation with your 18 yo? LOL

Here is an idea for trying to remember what you liked to do--peruse an entertainment guide for your city as well as a parks and recc classes guide...the listings alone can jog your memory!


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Yo, tomato!!! You just remembered I wanted to add you to my watch list!

HI, and thanks for the note!!!


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After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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