(((Mind))) What we do is so, so, so much more than just being "the mom". I know you know that. We are creating a foundation for life... which is why fighting for our M's is so important.
I'm a sports mom too... I get ya!
Hope you are feeling better, and thanks for all your encouragement!
YEAH for moms!!! do you know we have the best and hardest jobs in the world???? just think about it. we are bringing up a LIFE, and human being who is going to be unleashed onto society, and it's our job to create a GOOD ONE!
and mind, I know you love your H, but there is more to you than your kids and your job and H.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
OP - Some day we need to chat in the alt... you made me realize a few things... Thank you!!
However, TODAY...
Finish laundry. (Good Lord, is it EVER done?)
Do some work.
Stop and see, and hopefully have a very grown-up conversation w/D18 and roommates.
Pay the kids registration fees for school next year (UGH!) Lunch (and bowling w/the kids) with BFF and another friend and kids... Other Friend and H just opened the equivalent of a Brunswick Zone place, w/an Off Track Betting inside. Wow. Serious cash! Heard it is awesome btw...
Handle driving S9 - Going to see AVATAR at an IMAX w/his friend
Go to the Varsity BBALL game tonight, and hang w/girlfriends (mom's of players).
Whew! That's a lot for the person who was starting to like hibernating...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I think I might be starting to do something RIGHT!
I like the sound of that!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Hey, you can be a mom and a milf (SORRY TO BE CRASS!!!;-) )
And how do you have a "grown up" conversation with your 18 yo? LOL
Here is an idea for trying to remember what you liked to do--peruse an entertainment guide for your city as well as a parks and recc classes guide...the listings alone can jog your memory!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004