LOL. I don't feel scolded. I hoped of course you'd say "oh what harm can it do?" but I know I have to stop it. I hate having to be the grown up.
I'm actually finding it harder to finish "it" (whatever "it" is) with him than I did finishing the sexual relaitonships. Your point about being starved of intimacy is well made. I'm scared of giving it up - because that space will be empty again - and I'll be in a renewed state of intimacy (and sexual!) anorexia!!
Your point about sex partners being a dime a dozen is well made too. It's easy to get a partner to bonk ... not so easy to trust yourself enough to form an emotional attachment - and I guess that's why I opend myself up to marriedman in the first place - he was safe.
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See, one of the things my husband had learned, is that the only way to get what you really want is to AVOID what you don't want and to actively run the other direction when it comes toward you
REally sound advice ... thanks.
OK ... . "Operation Detach-From-Married-Man" now in effect.
