The respondent emailed me today and finally explained why she had not got back to me about the holiday schedule. She says that she wants to make changes the agreement that we had made last October, but wanted to do so in person with a co-parenting counselor.
I frankly just don't get it. Why can't we just decide these things on our own, or just continue on with the agreement we made and the court recognizes as being the agreement we made. In addition, I certenly don't have the money to pay for a co=parenting counselor to be witness to negotiations and agreements she and I can handle. Now I know I am only speaking for myself, maybe she doean't feel we can. She is the type of person who will do things because she knows people are watching, not because it is necessary or just the right thing to do.
She claims to have no money to pay me family support. She told me she can barely afford her $2000/month rent, food, her electric bill and phone bill. Yet she is willing to spend hundreds for a co-parenting councelor.
