He wanted the dates so they can fit son in at this workplace, without too much interruption to my life, I am still unsure if he is being nicey nice or if it is his guilt that is shaming him into doing some things in the way to help son forward into his working life, due to the fact that ex missed all sons highschool days, we will see, I continue to watch, oh and should ex phone and aske where i am tonight whilst son is working of course I will be out, and of course I will be out on valentines day when ex picks son up for rugby, oh life can be good at some times, x